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Why should I talk with my teen about porn?
Pornography is a topic that affects everyone, whether they realize it or not. An estimated 91.5% of men and 60.2% of women consume it. What’s more, as many as 93.2% of boys and 62.1% of girls first see porn before they turn 18, with estimates of first exposure at an average age of 13 or younger.
In episode 48, Chris and Karlie give a big picture overview of the effects pornography has on developing minds and ways adults can help teens navigate the inevitable dangers of online porn. They also dive into acronyms that every parent needs to know and ways that Disney+ is changing.
Acronyms You Need To Know
Normal Acronyms:
- TTM: Talk to me
- TFW: that feeling when
- YKTV: you know the vibe
- FR: For real
- 53X: Sex
Sexual Acronyms:
- LMIRL: Let’s meet in real life
- ASL: Age/sex/location
- FYEO or 4YEO: For your eyes only (may indicate explicit photos)
- TDTM: Talk dirty to me
- NSFW: Not safe/suitable for work (most of the time inappropriate/to make sure adults aren’t looking at it)
Don’t miss these resources on the effects of pornography.
- The Recovery Village: Pornography Facts and Statistics
- Fightthenewdrug.org: Boys Exposed: How Porn Traumatizes
- Fightthenewdrug.org: How Many Women Watch Porn?
- Defendyoungminds.org: 10 Tricky Ways Porn Will Target Your Kids in 2022
- Defendyoungminds.org: 7 Ways Porn Kills Marriage–Plus Tips for Talking to Your Teens
- Covanenteyes.org: The Holiday Reality of Peer-to-Peer Porn Exposure
- YouTube: Raised on Porn Documentary
- Cyberwise: Online Pornography
- Covenanteyes.com
- Defendyoungminds.com
- Podcast music by Luke Cabrera and Tobin Hodges
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Chris Robey
Former CEO

Karlie Duke
Communications Director
Karlie Duke | Director of Communications
Karlie has always had a heart for teenagers. Through her role at Teen Life, she loves to showcase the amazing stories coming out of Support Groups, but she is especially passionate about helping adults and teenagers find connection. Karlie has a BS in Communications with a minor in Family Studies from Abilene Christian University.
Chris Robey | Former CEO
Chris has spent most of his career empowering teenagers from all backgrounds. As the former leader of Teen Life, he is passionate about helping students make good choices while also giving adults the tools they need to communicate more effectively with teens. Chris is a graduate of Midwestern State University and holds a Master’s Degree in Family Life Education from Lubbock Christian University.
Please explain more acronyms
Thank you for the feedback Don! We appreciate your taking the time to listen and we’ll keep your request in mind when planning future episodes.