How to Deal with Teen Back Talk
We’ve also got costume and trunk-or-treat ideas, news on AI chatbots and new ways teens are watching sports.
Keep reading for more details or listen now to the podcast!
Costumes for the Spooktacular Night
Trending costume ideas for 2023:
- Barbie & Ken: The classic Barbie and Ken duo is making a resurgence, especially for high school homecoming dress-up days. You’ll be sure to turn heads as you step out looking like the iconic plastic power couple.
- Taylor Swift & Travis Kelce: For those who love to blend pop culture and sports, dressing up as Taylor Swift and Travis Kelce can be a dynamic choice.
- Nacho Libre: Pay tribute to the legendary Jack Black character from the cult classic “Nacho Libre.”
- Resurgence of Star Wars: With Anakin, Jedi, Ahsoka, and more making a comeback, the force is strong with this Halloween trend.
- Anime/Manga Characters: Dive into the world of anime and manga, with characters from popular shows like One Piece on Netflix.
Trunk-or-treat themes to decorate your car trunk and delight young trick-or-treaters:
- Mario: Transform your trunk into a mini Mushroom Kingdom, complete with Mario, Luigi, and Princess Peach.
- Barbie Dreamland: Create a magical Barbie-themed world filled with pink and glitter.
- Trolls: Bring the whimsical world of Trolls to life with colorful decorations and lots of hugs.
- Minions: Get into the mischief spirit with a Minions-themed trunk full of bananas and laughter.
- Beach Vibes: Who says Halloween can’t be a beach party? Deck out your trunk with sand, surfboards, and beach balls.
- Christmas: Go all out with an early Christmas theme, complete with ornaments and jolly music.
The World of AI Chatbots
Several chatbot options include apps, specifically designed for companionship, like Replika or Character.AI, use well-known voices and personalities to appeal to a broader audience and create a more immersive experience.
The most recent addition to the celebrity chatbot experience, is Meta AI. The tool enables users to engage in virtual conversations with AI characters that use the personas of public figures, including the likes of Tom Brady and Dwayne Wade, MrBeast, and even Snoop Dogg.
While AI chatbots are certainly a novel concept and sure to entertain, it’s also worth mentioning some conversation points to keep teenagers safe and aware of their environment online and off.
The Risks of AI Chatbots
- Privacy Concerns
Engaging with AI characters may involve sharing personal information, which could be misused if in the wrong hands. Teens should be cautious about revealing sensitive data, even in seemingly harmless conversations.
- Financial Risks
The use of AI characters could extend to virtual purchases or donations. The recent AI deepfake ad featuring MrBeast offering an iPhone in exchange for a small donation serves as a reminder that online personas can be manipulated. Teens need to be vigilant and make sure they understand the authenticity of such interactions before parting with their money.
As the lines between reality and simulation blur, the risk of falling victim to cyberattacks or scams becomes more pronounced. Teens should be educated about online safety, recognizing potential threats, and safeguarding their digital presence.
- Emotional Risks
Because AI chatbots like Meta AI, Replica, Character.AI and others can seem so real, it is easy to forget that they aren’t human and people become fixated with the characters. What’s more, they are designed to seek positive feedback, which can create a positive feedback loop. This is designed to keep the user engaged, but can easily lead to an unhealthy dependence, which in turn could interfere with healthy “real world” relationships.
Empowering Teens with Logic about AI
As chatbots and other AI resources reshape the social media landscape, we must encourage teens to enjoy the entertainment it offers while being vigilant and cautious in their interactions. The merging of AI and celebrity personas is undoubtedly fun, but we need to keep an open dialogue about appropriate use and how to stay safe. In this ever-evolving digital age, knowledge and discernment are the keys to making the most of these new and innovative opportunities without sacrificing personal or emotional safety.
The New Way Teens Are Watching Sports
In the sports world, significant changes are afoot. MLB has introduced innovations such as a pitch clock, new uniforms, and different branding, resulting in an increase in in-person attendance and shorter game durations. The NFL has also ventured into unique collaborations, like the “Toy Story Mode” game aired on Nickelodeon, showcasing the evolving landscape of sports entertainment.
Navigating Teen Back Talk
At first glance, back talk may seem like disrespectful behavior that challenges parental authority. But what if that’s not a bad thing?
Back talk can signify a significant step in a teenager’s development. It reflects a willingness to engage in discussions and a level of comfort in expressing their ideas and feelings to adults, especially parents. In essence, it’s a sign that they are becoming more independent thinkers.
Which, as uncomfortable as it may be, is the goal. Right?
Flipping the Narrative on Back Talk
Imagine for a moment that instead of back talk, your teenager simply ignored you. The latter scenario is far less desirable. Back talk, albeit sometimes challenging, is a form of communication, an invitation to engage in a discussion. It’s an opportunity to build a bridge of understanding and maintain an open line of communication with your teen.
Turning Back Talk into Constructive Dialogue
Here are some strategies to consider:
- Take a Deep Breath
When faced with back talk, take a deep breath and remind yourself that this is an opportunity for growth. Reacting with anger or frustration may shut down the conversation.
- Engage in Discussion
Instead of dismissing the back talk or responding with authority, use it as a gateway to a respectful and open conversation. Ask questions, and encourage your teenager to express their thoughts and feelings.
- Listen Actively
Actively listen to what your teenager has to say. Show that you value their perspective, even if you don’t necessarily agree. Listening is a powerful tool for strengthening the parent-teen relationship.
- Acknowledge Feelings
While it’s essential to validate their feelings, also discuss how they can express themselves with a more respectful tone and choice of words in the future. This guidance will help them refine their communication skills.
- Consistency Is Key
Keep showing up, both in your support and in modeling effective communication. Over time, these interactions can teach your teenager valuable lessons in negotiation, respect, and understanding.
In this episode, we mentioned or used the following resources about back talk, sports watching, and more.
- TechCrunch: MrBeast Deepfake
- Meta AI
- NBC Sports: TSwift – Chiefs-Jets
- Morning Consult: Gen Z Interest in Sports
- Forbes: MLB Rule Changes
- Sports Illustrated: Nuggets Streaming Battle
- PsychologyToday: Adolescence and the age of more “talking back”
- TikTok: Talking Back
- Podcast music by Luke Cabrera & Tobin Hodges
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Caleb Hatchett | Podcast Co-Host
Caleb loves helping teenagers take ownership of their faith and relationships. He graduated from Abilene Christian University with a degree in Youth and Family Ministry and is currently Student Ministry Director at Jenks Church in Oklahoma.
Karlie Duke | Director of Communications
Karlie has always had a heart for teenagers. Through her role at Teen Life, she loves to showcase the amazing stories coming out of Support Groups, but she is especially passionate about helping adults and teenagers find connection. Karlie has a BS in Communications with a minor in Family Studies from Abilene Christian University.
Tobin Hodges | Program Director
Tobin’s entire career has been centered around students and teens from all walks of life. He has a passion for helping teens be their best selves. As Program Director, he loves working directly with school staff and students through Teen Life Support Groups. Tobin has a Bachelor’s Degree in Music from Texas Tech University.